Anna, Lady Mary, Nanny West and the adorable Master George
"The real discomfort of a governess's position in a private family arises from the fact that it is undefined. She is not a relation, not a guest, not a mistress, not a servant- but something made up of all. No one knows exactly how to treat her."
-Elizabeth Missing Sewell, Principles of Education
Does Nanny West have the right to boss Thomas around? Possibly. In a house this size, she would have soon had staff under her, a nursery maid or a nursery cook who would be preparing the dinners for the nursery so Mrs. Patmore could focus on the main dinners (children did not dine with their parents until they could deport themselves with grace and elegance and altogether be miniatures of their parents). So if she had staff under her, she would be at the same level of say Mr. Carson, Mrs. Hughes or Mrs. Patmore. Even without staff, she reported directly to the family, not to the head butler or housekeeper, ranking her higher up. Bossing anyone isn't going to win friends, but she did have a right to send messages with Thomas so that she could be back with her little charges sooner. However, she would have appeared so infrequently from the nursery until the children were older that one can hardly blame Thomas for taking offence at being given orders by a stranger.
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